There are times when we just don't feel good about our situation in life... we're ready to try something... anything. And that's good - trying is better than nothing. Yet I know what it's like to feel exhausted from trying and still never feel like anything significant has been achieved. The good news is there's always hope. But to reach that good news, we must give up hoping all the time and start taking action. But not just any action.

Key: The thing that is between an idea in your mind and the idea becoming a reality is CONSCIOUSNESS and ENERGY. The kind of thinking you use and the energy you create around you makes the difference. Be aware of the kind of energy inside you, and the kind energy you put out there.

Here's an example of what I mean: With good intentions, Nancy is looking for a producer to help her project. Notice how her email displays a "less-than" attitude....

Q) I have these 2 songs that I wrote and they have been sitting in limbo for many a years. I need a producer that will back me up...

Good for you for sending an email asking for support. Let me give some observations:
First, there's little excitement around something "sitting in limbo for years." Gads! Spider webs all other the place! How many ads on TV do you hear where they tell you their product is ancient?

Next, notice whether or not you sound "needy" in your request. People who are power-packed with incredible talent and energy don't "need" a producer. They may desire one, but they know the producer will want them as much as they want the producer. An artist who feels their product is HOT doesn't come from an energy of needing.

Success attitude #1 - Come from HAVING energy, not needing it.

...and if the songs make it on air and make it to the charts, hopefully we will both be a little better financially.

Very few people are attracted to the word "if." It contains a track record of more failure than success. "Hopefully" contains a high track record of failure too. Plus "a little better financially" isn't what successful people want. They want a LOT of success! Instead say, "Teaming up with a dynamic producer, I intend for us both to achieve great financial success when this product is released."

Success attitude #2 - Come from strong intentions, not humble beginnings.

I don't have the finances to pull this off,but hopefully a good hearted person will help me out and get paid back when the song or songs make it.

No one is attracted to what you don't have. Concentrate your confidence on what you do have, and advertise it relentlessly. Plus, you can design who you attract with more precision. Beyond a "good hearted person" you can ask for a solidly connected, enthusiastic and focused individual (or team).

Success attitude #3 - Display your talents with enthusiasm, and those equally as talented will appear in exact proportion to your willingness to receive them. Be specific. You will get what you ask for.

I'm a mother of 3 struggling and working at a walmart, yeah I know walmart is a big franchise,but believe me or not,the workers don't make alot of money,we just get alot of aching bones.

People are not attracted to your strife anymore than they are attracted to what you don't have. Save that story for the interviews after the songs have gone multi-platinum and you want to inspire millions to go for their dreams. Besides, the most successful people in the world get aching bones and they basically don't care. They just see it as part of the process to get what their heart desires.

Success attitude #4 - See struggle as part of the process. See struggle as a signal from your very soul saying that something in your life is out of alignment. Pain happens, but suffering is optional. Pay attention to everything you're feeling. If it's negative, consciously decide that you want something different and start pulling ideas out of completely different places... then take action based on those new ideas.

I myself have had the ruff bunt of life throwed at me many atimes...

The only way out of the energy of victimhood is to take responsibility (I like to phrase it response-ability). While it's true that we may not have deserved a bum deal, at some level, we had a part in creating it. A great way to change feeling out-of-control is to say "I've been in control all along and I'm in control now. I can't change the past, but I can change my future by how I am being now." Base your actions knowing that EVERY ENERGY ATTRACTS. Negative energy attracts negative, positive energy attracts positive. Since it all attracts something, simply decide what it is you want to attract.